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Three Year Blogoversary

December 6th, 2017 at 07:36 pm

It's been forever since I've posted up a blog entry but as yesterday was my three year blogoversary (I think due to American time differences it could possibly be showing as today???) I thought it would be nice to put up an entry.

The last three months since my last post have flown by. This year we've had some personal stuff going on which has taken up most of my brain space (so I have kept up financially and have been lurking but haven't had the energy to do much more), but we have entered into the world of marriage counselling and I think it's been really helpful. I won't divulge what is going on but I will say that marriage counselling for certain situations is money well spent (and where we are going is not very expensive either which is good).

I haven't felt like I've wanted to discuss with family and friends what is going on but needed to speak to someone, and having a trained professional speak to both myself and my husband to tell us what we are both doing wrong and how to fix these things is really helpful. It's helped our communication skills and hopefully will bring us closer together, and strengthen our bond (which over the years has slowly weakened and we probably grew apart slowly until something happened which brought it all to a head).

Creditcardfree yesterday talking about her anxiety made me want to share a little also.

Financially, the spa has been repaid in full - we received our tax refunds in November so paid the outstanding amount on my credit card.

The Thailand holiday is now happening (we go away in March) and I now have booking confirmations and details of where to pay (it's my friend's travel agent). Payment is due in full 10 January 2018 so we have been paying instalments towards that.

We just bought my husband a Harley Davidson... A bit of midlife crisis here perhaps! Actually his current bike loan will be repaid next year and this has been his dream for a while, and the type he wanted is not common so we snapped it up. He said he wouldn't buy unless I could go riding with him too, and as I didn't mind, he bought it. We've been doing things like going for rides out to dinner and coffee and stuff, so it's been good. (Financially not so much but it's nice that we can afford it!)

So where we are compared to three years ago is very different. Three years ago my husband was injured and not working and money was very dire. 2015 was then spent rebuilding.

This year financial matters have not been at the forefront of our thoughts, other things have been going on. Another day I will look at progress at the goals on the sidebar.

I am hoping to slowly return back to normal, which for me is sharing my financial thoughts with my lovely SA family!

6 Responses to “Three Year Blogoversary”

  1. creditcardfree Says:

    We've missed you! I'm glad counseling is helpful for you.

  2. CB in the City Says:

    I echo CCF's thoughts exactly.

  3. frugaltexan75 Says:

    Having an objective 3rd party to listen definitely can be helpful. Glad to see you.

  4. scottish girl Says:

    I was wondering when you'd post again. What a quick three years! I'm glad counseling helped.

  5. VS_ozgirl Says:

    Thanks everyone, it's been so great to hear from you! Having an objective third party to listen has been great as well as someone who is trying to help us build a strong foundation, if needed I think counselling is really helpful. The movie Hope Springs is something that helped me to want to go through with this and it's not as bad as what people think it is.

  6. rob62521 Says:

    So glad the counseling is helping. Sounds like it is money well spent.

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