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Goodbye 2020... and both of our pets....

January 2nd, 2021 at 08:33 pm

Hello fellow SA'ers,

I haven't blogged in a while because unfortunately our beautiful dog started to get sick with a paw infection around August-Sept, and we got her to the vet a couple of days after the last blog entry.  The vet gave her lots of meds for the paw infection however gave a disclaimer that it was possibly a tumour but only time and a proper diagnosis would tell.  After a month of giving her the meds, going backwards and forwards to the vet we got the cat scan done and a needle inserted to withdraw cells from the infected area and the diagnosis came back with a malignant melanoma... as she was just under 18 we opted to forgo surgery and instead had a vet come to our home a couple of weeks later to put our beautiful baby to sleep.  While we miss her so much we are so blessed that I could work from home in order to care for her.

The September-October period was swallowed up with caring for her and of course emotions involved so financially we were on autopilot for a while; actually until the end of November.  Luckily though in that period we only spent the usual weekly allowance and there were no major bills, so around December when I went back and looked at everything we were still pretty much on track.

Also, in September-October I completed my bookkeeping course, which is super exciting and was something nice amongst a very hard time.  My boss asked me to work five days a week and I agreed to work it for 6 months as long as he signs off on all bookkeeping time done for the company which will go towards my experience required to become a Registered BAS Agent (the final requirement I have to complete is 1000 hours of time spent providing BAS services).

So, I guess to go over 2020, while the main part of it was that it was the year of goodbyes of both of our pets and the rainbow bridge, these were the main points:

- we had to say goodbye to both of our pets (emotionally hard but also financially hard - pet expenses for 2020 were $5400)

- I got the car I had been wanting for a long time (paid 1/3rd cash upfront with a five year loan for the remaining balance)

- DH got retrenched from his job, received a good redundancy package and another job quickly after.  We still have some of the money left, which we have agreed he can spend on a project bike, as this is one of his interests.

- I passed my bookkeeping course which will greatly help in my aim to be a Registered BAS Agent and have my own business

- we were supposed to go to the UK in July however due to the pandemic our tickets were cancelled and 3 months later we received a full refund which got applied straight to my credit card (which is how payment was made).  We still have the remainder of the holiday savings in the holiday account however due to uncertainty with when we can travel, saving for this is not a priority right now.

- my credit card debt has gone down dramatically due to the refund being applied against it.  I have become better with using the card and pretty much only have everyday expenses going on there which get repaid in 1-3 months, business expenses and interest expenses.  Progress is better but still needs to be made in this area

- our mortgage continues to drop rapidly now which is exciting, it is just over $90k with 11 years left so we will be working to speed this up

- cash is higher now as I am saving away the fifth day I work currently in preparation for taking the next step in my business etc, and we have not spent the redundancy package remainder nor the holiday money

So it was definitely a year of extremes!  We are still getting used to not having any pets anymore and plan on giving ourselves a rest as caring duties over the last four years increased and we want a bit more freedom to go away here and there without having lots to organise.  We're thinking of possibly having a 4-5 year break so if we actually do get to go away to the UK we are not leaving a cat or dog behind for a few weeks.  We will see how that goes though because we definitely miss the adorable quirks and love pets give.

I have updated my sidebar (however the EF breakdown is not accurate right now), and for once have used the financial tracking software throughout the whole year without fail, so will go over the expenses (have exported the spreadsheet) and will possibly blog about that too.  Definitely have to work out 2021 goals, there will definitely be a blog post about that as it is a big focus on my mind right now.

I have been lurking on the site but I hope everyone has had a wonderful Christmas break, New Year's and looks forward to planning their 2021!

15 Responses to “Goodbye 2020... and both of our pets....”

  1. Wink Says:
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    I am so sorry for the loss of your pets. I hope you had a nice holiday season, and best wishes for a happy new year!

  2. VS_ozgirl Says:
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    Thanks so much Wink! Had a great holiday season - after this year it was so nice to just relax for a while. Best wishes for a happy new year to you too!

  3. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    Losing two pets in one year definitely puts a damper on things. I went a few years without a pet after Monkey died (cat I got the weekend Princess Di died) and it was strange at first. Then Kari dropped into my life unexpectedly ... Give yourselves some time and when it's right, you'll know. {{hugs|Well hello all! I'm going to catch up on everyone's blogs, but thought I'd get a post of my own up before I get distracted.

    {{hugs}}

  4. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    I'm sorry about the above comment - I accidentally pasted my blog post in ... thought I deleted it all. Now it won't let me edit.

  5. LuckyRobin Says:
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    I'm sorry about your dog. 18 is so old for one. You were blessed with many years.

  6. LuckyRobin Says:
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    I'm not sure what the other pet was that you lost, but sorry for that one, too.

  7. VS_ozgirl Says:
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    Frugal Texan- thanks for your kind words, yes while we knew the time would come eventually it certainly put a dampener on things. Like you say I guess we’ll see when we get another pet, when the pet ownership adventure happens again

    LR- thanks for your condolences for our dog and cat (the cat was earlier).. yeah, bless their little hearts we were so lucky to have them for so long! We definitely appreciate that but just miss them dearly as they were our furry members of our family.

  8. Petunia 100 Says:
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    Oh, I am so sorry for your loss of your beloved pets. {{hugs}}

  9. CB in the City Says:
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I understand your decision not to replace them at this time. I think when I say goodbye to Iggy, whenever that is, I will not get another pet so I can travel more freely.

  10. rob62521 Says:
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    Very sorry for the loss of your pets. It sounds like things worked out great after your husband's job change and you got money besides. Congrats on passing the bookkeeping course. It always pays to learn more things because you never know when you can use them.

  11. VS_ozgirl Says:
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    Thanks everyone, your kind words are much appreciated.
    CB- it is hard to say no more pets for a few years but it is a relief when we go away as there is less to organise and less worry.
    Late.start- amen to travel being in our futures again relatively soon! In Australia they are saying we should be vaccinated by October.
    Rob- yes definitely a few skills here and there does not hurt, hope to be using them soon.

  12. Dido Says:
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    I'm so sorry about your pets. Always very hard.
    Best wishes for a better 2021.

  13. VS_ozgirl Says:
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    Thanks Dido, much appreciated.. Definitely super hard, miss them dearly but am just glad that they got to live good long lives with us. Wishing you a great 2021 also.

  14. LivingAlmostLarge Says:
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    I am so sorry for your loss. It takes a lot out of you to lose family members and they are. They are always a part of your family and in your heart. Hoping for a great 2021.

  15. VS_ozgirl Says:
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    LAL, thank you so much for your beautiful words. They are most definitely our family members, yes very much cherished and missed. Wishing you a wonderful 2021.

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